When it comes to gay spanking movies for men, one movie stands out above all others- “Mr. and Mrs. Smith.” Perhaps it has something to do with Angelina Jolie in that dominatrix outfit punishing the wicked man for selling weapons. The scene is sexy and well done considering it isn’t an “adult” film. The thought though is stimulating for a lot of men. After all who wouldn’t want to be spanked by Angelia in that outfit?
Gay Spanking though isn’t all about pain, yes, there is pain that is involved, but it is more about trust in your partner. For men, spanking is allowing the partner to control the situation. In society today, there is a lot of hype on the man’s role and how they should be in charge of everything, including sex in the bedroom. The fact is though men, just as much as women want to let go of those restraints and be submissive. Pain is often a catalyst for some people that help them trigger an orgasm. This is by no means signs that the individual has been abused in their past, it is more about how well they know their body. The pain associated with a spanking session releases endorphins from the brain that can make people more aware of the pleasure they are experiencing.
Just like females being spanked during intercourse, the male also feels the rush of the unexpected pain, and it sends a jolt throughout the body. Once the jolt of pain is triggered and mingled in with pleasure, the brain conceives the experience as a means for arousal. If you are just starting out to explore the world of gay spanking, it is best to start simple. There is no need for the whips- yet. Begin with light love taps.
Some people like to be spanked on their rear end, some the back and even the face. Start light and begin to apply pressure and intensity as your partner requests. Once you both are comfortable with the experience you can begin to add the toys. There are a lot of toys on the market to increase the pain factor when it comes to spanking. You can buy wooden paddles, whips, some like chains while others want feathers. The kind of toy you bring into the bedroom can always change with the mood. Perhaps you start off spanking with your hand, and aggress to the paddle and then the chains once your partner is tied up.
The important thing to remember is boundaries. Your partner trusts you not to put them in the hospital, but to give them pleasure. Spanking doesn’t necessary mean you or your partner is into S&M. Sex is to be an exploration of emotion, pleasure and submission. If you or your partner isn’t comfortable with the spanking, then stop and try something else. Gay spanking doesn’t have to be taboo. It can be a wonderful experienced shared by both parties- and a lot of people in a party. The fact is, pain teeters on pleasure and spanking is one way to breakthrough into a whole new world of sexual desires that you may not have experienced before.